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Strong Enough

Strong Enough is the podcast from Eating Disorders Families Australia.

Created for a world-wide audience of carers and families impacted by eating disorders, we speak to leaders in the field of research as well as specialists in education, advocacy and self-care. We also hear from those with lived experience who are bravely sharing their biggest challenges and successes in the caring journey.

Liptember Foundation, thank you for your support. ​

A big thank you to the Liptember Foundation for sponsoring the Strong Enough podcast, enabling us to renew for two more seasons. Your support makes episodes 11 and beyond possible, helping us reach and support more eating disorder carers.

Orthorexia: My obsession with healthy eating nearly cost my life

When you hear from your loved one the words “I want to be more healthy” – it’s not what think of as a potential red flag for disordered eating or even something to worry about.

But for Jason Wood this desire to improve his health started his obsession with only eating healthy food, choosing the healthiest options and exercising, which escalated into an eating disorder that nearly killed him.

What is an obsession with eating health called?

It’s known as Orthorexia and it is fixation with eating “clean” or only eating food the person considers healthy.

“What had started as an innocent thing – I thought I was just going to eat healthy and take care of myself and prevent disease – very rapidly turned into something that nearly cost me my life,” explains Jason.

This is an edited version of a presentation Jason did for carers as part of a webinar series run by Eating Disorders Families Australia. If you’d like to access more content like this then join EDFA, it costs as little as a cup of coffee a month.

Jason has also written a book called Starving for Survival.

If you have concerns and want more information about this or other early signs of disordered eating, then download the free Nourish Nurture Notice Masterclass.

Shannon and Jasper's Story

It’s been just over a decade since AFRID or Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder was officially identified as an eating disorder.

ARFID is not about dieting or body image or weight loss, but the symptoms and signs of ARFID can often be mistaken for anorexia or bulimia

It is more than being a fussy eater or a picky eater. There can be a fear of food, anxiety around swallowing or chewing or eating in public, or an extreme sensitivity to taste, texture or smell. Sometimes it might be related to a trauma, such as a hospital stay or emotional event around food or to neurodivergence. Another sign of ARFID might be the reduction in the variety of foods someone might eat.

Shannon’s five-year-old son Jasper was diagnosed with ARFID after a series of unrelated events – a choking incident, a vomiting bug, tonsilitis, then the death of a loved one. It was a slow progressive issue with food and then he didn’t eat for weeks.

A reminder that this podcast is about one family’s experience with ARFID – it’s important you also seek your own professional help for your loved one as every individual case is different.

Warning signs of disordered eating that parents and carers often miss

Disordered eating is on the rise in Australia. What counts as disordered eating can range from the more well known restriction on the amount of food, to only eating one or two specific foods or being afraid to eat because you might choke. Another sign of disordered eating can be an obsession with clean eating or a restrictive so called “healthy” diet!
If you have ever wondered about those tell-tale early signs of an eating disorder then the Nourish, Nurture, Notice program’s Masterclass is something every carer needs to see.
This podcast episode is an edited version of that Masterclass video, which is part of Australia’s first ever online eating disorder prevention program for parents, that focuses on early identification and intervention in disordered eating in young people.
Nourish, Nurture, Notice, which also includes free drop-in sessions, was developed by Eating Disorders Families Australia along with the Embrace Collective and is supported by The Queensland Government.
In the full Masterclass video we speak to Paediatric Dietitian Dr Lyza Norton and Paediatrician Dr Penny Larcombe about their experience speaking to thousands of carers, what they hear the most about the early signs carers miss and what to do next.
As well as EDFA’s Executive Director Jane Rowan and Fill the Gap counsellor Rowena Brookes.
Nourish, Nurture, Notice is an Australian first and an important step in eating disorder prevention.

Tips to make refeeding easier after an eating disorder

It is a complete understatement to say that refeeding after an eating disorder or reintroducing food after an eating disorder can be challenging.
“What is refeeding?” is one of the most common questions Eating Disorders Families Australia receives from carers, who are grappling with the emotional highs and lows, confusion over what to prioritise in refeeding, and how to make things easier or better, for themselves, for their families and their loved ones.
We understand that every recovery journey is unique, and different approaches work for different individuals and families.
In this podcast, EDFA’s Fill the Gap counsellor Rowena Brookes shares insights drawn from both her personal lived experience as a carer and her professional experience as a counsellor.
“It’s ok to feel lost. It’s ok to feel overwhelmed, scared, frustrated. You are starting a process that really doesn’t get spoken about a lot in society and there is not a lot of research on it, so it feels very unknown,” says Rowena.
The content is intended to offer support and general information, but it is not a substitute for professional advice. We encourage you to seek personalised guidance from a qualified healthcare professional who understands your and your loved one’s specific needs.
Don’t forget you can access EDFA’s FREE Fill the Gap one-on-one counselling support any time you need it along the way.

Zoe's Story: inside the mind of someone with an eating disorder

As you care for your loved one with an eating disorder have you ever thought “if only I could see inside their head and find out what’s going on!”
In this episode of the Strong Enough podcast Zoe Sheehan gives you a chance to do just that as she describes her experience of healing from Anorexia, Binge Eating Disorder, Bulimia and Body Dysmorphia over more than a decade.
Zoe talks about the treatments that worked, the mental health pressures – especially as a neurodivergent and queer person – the importance of family to recovery and the moment the penny dropped that this was a life or death situation.
If you have wondered “how does a person with an eating disorder think?” Zoe has lots of insights on what it is like living with an eating disorder PLUS advice for carers looking after loved ones.
“It is not who you are looking after, it really does take over your brain and your daughter or your son or whoever is going through it is in there somewhere. It just takes a lot to get them back out of it,” says Zoe.
If you become an EDFA member you can hear hundreds of hours of content like Zoe’s story PLUS regular webinars with industry experts, researchers and lived experience carers. If you want more from Zoe she’s published a book called Neuro the Cookie.

Medications for eating disorders with Associate Professor Warren Ward

Wondering what medications might help with eating disorders? We know there is no silver bullet pill or tablet that will “fix” or “cure” an eating disorder but there are a range of medications that can be used in conjunction with traditional treatment options and it may be that a simple change in dose will make the world of difference.
This podcast is an edited version of an EDFA webinar on Eating Disorders and medications with Associate Professor Warren Ward. He’s a psychiatrist, the Director of the Eating Disorder program at Ramsey Clinic New Farm, an author and researcher. He answers questions like: do anti depression drugs help eating disorders? What is the first line of treatment for eating disorders? What is the best medication for binge eating?
Dr Ward also discusses the types of medications available in eating disorder treatment, including common drugs for anxiety, depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder that have shown promising results at different dosages.
Live webinars are a regular part of EDFA’s membership program. For the cost of a cup of coffee a month you can access regular sessions with experts discussing the latest research, treatments and professional advice. Members can also access more than 160 hours of video content and other resources designed specifically for those caring for a loved one with an eating disorder. 

Early signs of an eating disorder with Paediatric Dietitian Lyza Norton

When the subtle signs of disordered eating sneak into a home parents and carers often wonder: when should I worry? When is disordered eating serious? What should I do first if I suspect an eating disorder?
Paediatric Dietitian Lyza Norton shares her years of experience with thousands of families navigating disordered eating. She gives us some insights into the different kinds of disordered diets, even “clean eating” or only eating healthy food can become an issue. She also lists some of the most common early signs and symptoms to watch out for and it may not be what you expect.
Dr Norton is also involved in the Nourish, Nurture, Notice program – Australia’s first ever online eating disorder prevention program for parents that focuses on early identification and intervention in disordered eating in young people.
The Nourish Nurture Notice program, which includes a Masterclass and Drop-In Sessions, was developed by EDFA along with the  Embrace Collective and is proudly supported by The Queensland Government. It is designed for parents and carers of school-aged children and adolescents.

Somatic Mindfulness for eating disorders: tips to help carers calm, cope and heal

What if there was something you could do as a carer for a loved one with an eating disorder that could have a huge impact on how well you cope? Something that would boost your resilience and your ability to stay the distance in this challenging role?
What if it could be as simple as paying attention? Would you try it?
Mindfulness is often dismissed as something that you might be no good at or something you don’t have time for but in this episode of EDFA’s Strong Enough podcast mindfulness coach Amanda Goodfellow shows us simple ways we can use somatic skills daily to calm and heal.
Amanda is also a TedX speaker as well as a mental health advocate and she knows Somatic mindfulness and somatic therapy practise works because she has used it herself after a battle with her own eating disorder.
She says with somatic mindfulness you can train yourself to be calm, learn how to calm yourself down and, in turn, help someone with an eating disorder to do the same.

Social Media age limits: the story behind the new government legislation to keep children off social platforms

Wondering what are the age limits for social media like Snapchat, Instagram and TikTok? Find out the story behind the world first decision to increase age limits on social platforms from the advocates and academics involved in the process.
EDFA Executive Director Jane Rowan and Dr Simon Wilksch, Clinic Director at Advanced Psychology Services and a Senior Research Fellow at Flinders University speak to Strong Enough about the research and insights behind the historic decision and the impact it will have on those caring for loved ones with eating disorders.
Not sure how to keep your kids safe online before the legislation changes? The pair also share their best tips on surviving the “online tsunami”.
This season has been made possible by an impact grant from the Liptember Foundation, which raises and invests funds to support women’s mental health.

Thank you for making this podcast possible.

Season one and two, including episodes 1- 10 has been made possible through the generous fundraising efforts of EDFA members Leah Ward and Alanna McInerney, and the team at Teleflex Medical Australia & New Zealand. 

A dad’s story: advice and tips for men caring for a loved one with an eating disorder

You might think this podcast episode is one just for the men in the lives of loved ones with eating disorders, but it is much more than that.
It is a real insight into the roles men play when mental health issues, illness and eating disorders darken a doorway. It will help everyone in a family or partnership or caring role understand the challenges of caring that hit different for men.
We’re going to shed light onto some of the tough feelings and talk about the helplessness or feeling out of control, maybe for the first time in their life. What it is like facing the pressure of being the breadwinner and trying to keep it together at work while a crisis brews at home. Plus we’ll discuss the struggle for some men to “lean in” to the caring role when they have never known how. 
Our guest will be a familiar voice for some if you are in the EDFA support groups–in particular the Men’s Carers Support Group.
Rohan Wastell spent decades behind the camera filming some of the biggest media events in Australia. He has been on the front line, witnessing and recording human emotion and suffering sometimes on a daily basis but he says nothing prepared him for the diagnosis of his daughter with an eating disorder.

Back to basics with food after an eating disorder with Dietitian Shane Jeffery

In this episode, our guest, Accredited Practicing Dietitian Shane Jeffrey from River Oak Health, wants us to pare it all back saying a positive, intuitive relationship with food is within reach for us all, particularly those with eating disorders. Shane’s tips on how to start eating again after an eating disorder come down to an easy five step acronym: RAVES.
He’s spent the last few decades developing the internationally acclaimed RAVES model, which combines science with personal values to reset relationships with food.
If you are wondering about how to encourage eating again after a loved one has been diagnosed with an eating disorder or improving their relationship with food then listen to this episode! 

Sibling support and family connections with EDFA Counsellor Alisha Mah

Alisha Mah is one of EDFA’s counsellors, working in the Fill The Gap program that offers free online sessions for carers. She also has lived experience as both a sibling and a carer for a loved one with an eating disorder. 
When there’s a diagnosis of an eating disorder in a family it often impacts more than just one person and the rest of the family, particularly siblings, can feel the wide reaching ripples of change, of worry and concern, of isolation and even anger.

In this episode Alisha shares many helpful insights into the sibling challenges, about family routines and traditions, about birthdays and events, as well ways to speak to the family members who don’t understand. 
Adult carers and young supporter (aged 10-17) can book a FREE counselling sessions with Alisha and other qualified counsellors here.

Eating Disorders and Autism with Carer Coach Jenny Langley

Meet Jenny Langley, an international Carer Coach and Trainer, helping families communicate better when a loved one is diagnosed with an eating disorder.
The New Maudsley Model was developed at London’s Maudsley Hospital by world leading clinical and academic psychiatrist in eating disorders, Professor Janet Treasure. The program teaches carers communications tools and techniques to engage with loved ones in ways that lower stress and anxiety for everyone in the family.
Jenny took part in the Maudsley Hospital’s initial pilot program after living through her own caring challenges with her son who ‘crashed into anorexia’ as a 12 year old. The mother of 6 is now a trainer, workshop facilitator, experienced carer coach and author of the book Boys Get Anorexia Too. And you’ll be happy to know her son has also made a good recovery.

There’s something for everyone in this episode including communication tips, validation and soothing skills, the role of positive affirmations and the power of the pause.

Resilience tips for carers with EDFA Ambassador Hugh van Cuylenburg

Our guest Hugh van Cuylenburg is one of the hosts of Australia’s most beloved podcasts “The Imperfects” and he runs The Resilience Project, a national program teaching practical wellbeing strategies to build mental health resilience in the community.
But Hugh has also walked in your shoes and has seen the challenges firsthand of caring for someone with an eating disorder, after his sister was diagnosed with anorexia as a teenager.
Hugh talks about resilience, empathy, mindfulness and … yes … even the importance of gratitude when you are a carer. He has plenty of tips an d ideas to help people cope as a caregiver or in a caring role. Hugh is also encouraging families to join EDFA’s Sibling Support groups saying it would have been life changing for him if these services had been available.

Ask me a question with EDFA Psychologist Chris Fowler

Chris is the Program Director at EDFA’s Fill The Gap counselling service – a one-on-one free online counselling service for carers to seek support with a simple phone call-and he has more than a decade of experience to draw on in hospital and helpline settings.
In this episode Chris discusses member concerns around “saying the wrong thing”, he offers his best advice on how to support people with eating disorders and explains why relapses shouldn’t be seen as failures. He answers questions about self care, about the eating disorder recovery process and why support groups can be helpful for everyone in the family.
 

The latest eating disorder research on genetics social media and perfectionism with Professor Tracey Wade

For more than 30 years Professor Tracey Wade has been at the forefront of eating disorderresearch, clinical practice and public policy. Currently the Director of the Flinders Institute for Mental Health and Wellbeing at Flinders University, Professor Wade has co-written threetherapy books, published hundreds of papers and has just been awarded the 2023: Australian Association for Cognitive and Behavioural Therapy-Distinguished Career Award.
In this episode, we focus on her work on the latest genetic links to eating disorders, delve into her research on the importance of media literacy as a way to combat the menace of social media and find out her insights into the perfectionism trait that can trigger disordered eating in many forms including bulimia, restrictive eating and anorexia nervosa. 

Refeeding after an eating disorder diagnosis with Eva Musby

What is refeeding? Should I put extra calories in meals? How do I stay calm at the dinner table?
What is the magic plate theory?
Eva Musby tackles all these questions (and more) about the the topic of refeeding (which she breaks down for us, if you’re new to the conversation) and the refeeding stage of eating disorder recovery.  She offers gentle and practical help as she talks us through her most successful tips and ideas about how to encourage and support your loved one using a family based approach.
* It’s important to note that this discussion is not a substitute for professional advice. Some tips might be relevant to your own situation and others might not.

Leah's Story

Leah’s daughter had been struggling with mental health challenges when an eating disorder diagnosis rocked the family. In this heartfelt podcast, Leah talks us through those first days, the signs and signals she noticed, her experiences finding the health team her daughter needed and navigating the fear of a diagnosis.
She discusses how joining EDFA’s eating disorder support group for carers helped her survive and thrive PLUS offers her top three tips on how to support someone with an eating disorder.



Eating Disorder Diagnosis To Do List with Jane Rowan

When a loved one is diagnosed with an eating disorder, it can be difficult to know where to start. In this first episode of Strong Enough, Executive Director Jane Rowan talks us through EDFA’s eating disorder diagnosis checklist, using her lived experience as a carer for a daughter diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa.
You can download the Diagnosis To Do List here.